Add per-query and default query timeout support #181

Job	Run time
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	4m 12s
stable - x86_64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 27s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	4m 21s
stable - aarch64-apple-darwin - node@20	3m 14s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	5m 48s
stable - x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	4m 56s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	5m 54s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@22	1m 48s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	2m 5s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@22	26s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@22	29s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	33s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@20	31s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@	1m 58s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@22	1m 2s
Publish	12s
	39m 56s

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